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Lead with a crisp, well-lit headshot, then add 3 supporting images that reveal daily life and interests. Use natural light, a neutral background, and avoid sunglasses or heavy filters. Keep the main photo at roughly 4:5 aspect ratio and ensure it loads quickly. Limiting to 4–6 photos increases match opportunities and reduces decision fatigue for someone browsing.

In the bio, swap vague statements for concrete details. Replace “I like travel” with specifics like “I spent two months riding trains along the Baltic coast and tried 12 regional dishes.” Aim for 75–120 words, 2–3 distinctive traits, and a light touch of humor when it fits.

Set a consistent voice and be transparent about your aims. Whether warm, witty, or straightforward, keep that tone across your lines. Mention what you’re open to and what you want to exchange in a first conversation, such as “seeking someone who enjoys weekend hikes and good coffee.”

Balance visuals and text with strategy. Include one full-body shot and one image showing a hobby or skill in action. Avoid group photos where you’re not clearly identifiable. Place key details (height, location, pets) sparingly in the bio if they matter to you, and keep the whole set up-to-date within the last two years.

Protect privacy while inviting connection. Do not reveal personal contact details or sensitive information in the bio. Use prompts that invite curiosity, e.g., “What’s your favorite weekend ritual?” instead of asking to meet online immediately. Consider turning off read receipts or limiting who can see your full bio until you’re comfortable.

Measure and adjust. Track response rate: if fewer than 3 meaningful replies per 100 listing views, tweak the opener, swap one photo, or tighten the bio by 20–30 words. Small refinements yield noticeable gains over a couple of weeks.

Show, don’t tell: feature concrete traits with brief anecdotes

Lead with a tight, two-sentence anecdote that proves a trait rather than naming it.

For each chosen attribute, pair a 1–2 line scene with concrete details: a setting, a simple action, and a clear outcome.

Anchor each line with specifics–time, place, objects, or people–so a reader can picture the moment instantly.

Punctuality: Delivered a warm coffee five minutes before a planned meet, carrying a thermos and a pastry for the host.

Calm under change: When rain canceled the hike, I mapped a new route and messaged the group with updated timing.

Empathy in action: I volunteer at a shelter on weekends, remember each dog’s name, and help match a pet with a family.

Choose 4 recent photos that tell your story and validate your bio

Choose four photos that clearly reveal your day-to-day life: a bright head-and-shoulders shot in daylight, a full-body image in a casual setting, a moment showing a hobby in action, and a candid scene with people you know. Arrange them in this order to support your bio:

1. Photo 1 – Clean, daylight headshot

   Frame fills about 60-70% with your face and shoulders. Use a neutral background, avoid heavy filters, remove sunglasses, and look toward the camera. Dress simply in colors that contrast with the backdrop. This image anchors trust and recognition.

2. Photo 2 – Full-body, real setting

   Show authentic posture and an approachable vibe. Choose a casual outfit that fits your lifestyle and a location with minimal clutter–coffee shop, park, or street corner. Crop to 4:3 or square; keep the shoes visible to convey movement.

3. Photo 3 – Hobby in action

   Capture you doing something tangible: cooking, cycling, playing an instrument, painting. Hands should be visible; avoid staged poses. Lighting should match the first photo for cohesion; include a hint of your personality through the activity or setup.

4. Photo 4 – Social moment

   Include one scene with people you know, such as a friend or family member, but ensure your presence is clear. Blur the background slightly if needed so you stand out; avoid crowd shots where you disappear. A natural laugh or shared gesture communicates approachability.

• Recency: Images taken within the last 6 months.
• Quality: 1200–2400 px on the long edge; JPEG or PNG; 2–6 MB per file keeps detail without slowing load times.
• Consistency: Maintain similar white balance across shots; avoid heavy color grading that makes images look unrelated.
• Framing: Favor square or 4:3 crops; keep your face clear in the first shot, avoid extreme crops.
• Титри: Add 1–2 line captions that provide context without repeating your bio word-for-word.

Caption ideas:

• “Morning coffee on a sunlit balcony.”
• “Weekend hike with a view I won’t forget.”
• “Trying a new recipe, apron on and curious.”
• “Laughing with friends after a casual dinner.”

Write prompts and openers that spark conversations and set expectations

Lead with one tight line: a concrete fact about you followed by a direct question. This approach boosts engagement and helps align goals early.

Example: I swapped coffee for matcha and started a tiny desk garden; what small change has boosted your mornings?

What small habit boosts your mood on a rough day, and why?

If you could learn one skill in a weekend, what would it be and why?

Describe your perfect 30-minute ritual.

Назвіть одне місцеве місце, яке ви любите; що робить його особливим?

Зазвичай я відповідаю протягом 24 годин у будні дні; який темп вам підходить?

Чітко окресліть межі на початку: Я ціную чіткі сигнали, якщо тема заборонена; а які у вас?

Робіть підказки короткими та такими, що їх можна сканувати в біографії: одна підказка на рядок, 6–12 слів у кожній, у парі з короткою підказкою для відповіді.

Форматуйте підказки як окремі рядки у вашій біографії, кожен до 20 слів, і додайте коротку підказку щодо типу відповіді, яка вам подобається.

Відстежуйте коефіцієнт відповідей: прагніть до 1–2 змістовних відповідей на 10 переглядів; удосконалюйте запити, які не отримують відгуку.