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Psicología
septiembre 04, 2025
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Initiate a structured data collection from the client: relationship history, deal-breakers, must-have traits, preferred communication style, and weekly time budget. Compile into a one-page profile that guides every next step. Define three target archetypes and map each to specific venues, messages, and dating-app prompts.

Short weekly check-ins of about 15 minutes to review actions, adjust templates, and confirm progress toward goals. Use a shared action list with due dates, and attach a simple scorecard: response rate, first-date rate, and satisfaction rating after each meeting.

Profile optimization: translate the data from intake into compelling bios, photos, and prompts. Create 2–3 opening messages per archetype, tested against openers that elicit quick replies. Provide samples, but avoid generic lines; tailor to each archetype’s values and styles.

Ethical guardrails: obtain explicit consent in each step, respect boundaries, avoid manipulation, and disclose paid services and data usage. Ensure safety guidelines are reviewed in each session and updated as needed.

Metrics and iteration: track monthly outcomes such as matches per week, response rates, dates secured, and client satisfaction. Review results after each cycle, adjust messaging, profile assets, and outreach cadence accordingly.

Communication tone: align language with the client’s persona; encourage honest feedback; document failed attempts to prevent repeats. Use a transparent, data-driven approach that respects privacy and builds trust.

Adopt a repeatable framework that scales as client needs evolve, with regular audits of outcomes and updates shared in a single log.

Define your niche and client avatar to focus outreach and match criteria

Define your niche and client avatar to focus outreach and match criteria

Start with a single niche and craft an avatar that mirrors a real prospect. Build a one-page profile including: age range 28–42, metro-area location, education level bachelor’s or higher, annual income 70k–120k, career fields such as tech, finance, or healthcare, and lifestyle notes (weekly social activity, travel 2–4 times yearly). Capture relationship goals (serious, within 12–24 months), non-negotiables (truthfulness, reliability, open communication), and values (empathy, accountability). Update this sheet quarterly based on client intake and outcomes.

Translate the avatar into outreach planning and screening criteria. Align two or three channels with the target group: curated Instagram content, partnerships with wellness studios or professional networks, and local events. Prepare 3 value-led messages that speak to outcomes such as stronger connection quality, dating clarity, and time-efficient meetings. Keep templates short, concrete, and actionable; include a clear call to schedule a discovery session.

Frame match criteria as a numeric rubric. Create a scoring sheet with weights: values alignment 40%, lifestyle compatibility 25%, readiness and commitment signals 20%, communication style 15%. Use 0–100 scales; require minimum 70 to consider an introduction. Track outcomes by cohort and review monthly to refine weights, thresholds, and message angles.

Operationalize the avatar through intake and ongoing quality checks. Use a 15–20 minute intake call to confirm the avatar fits; if mismatched, pause and re-sculpt the sheet. Maintain a simple CRM tag next to each prospect: avatar match score, preferred channels, readiness level, last outreach date. Schedule introductions when score exceeds threshold; otherwise, nurture via targeted content and check-ins every 2–3 weeks.

Example avatar snapshot: Jordan, 35, Seattle, Product leader, income 95k, seeks long-term relationship, values honesty and a growth mindset, hobbies include hiking and live music; deal-breakers: poor communication, dishonesty.

Build a repeatable onboarding and goal-setting workflow for clients

Build a repeatable onboarding and goal-setting workflow for clients

Launch a 14‑day intake sprint with a standardized data sheet, a 30‑minute alignment session, and a one‑page action plan signed by the client. The sheet collects: name or alias, preferred contact method, dating objectives, non‑negotiables, weekly availability, desired pace, and success criteria.

Use automation to route form completion into a shared workspace, trigger an alignment slot within 24 hours of submission, and deliver the plan within 48 hours.

  • Milestone 1 – Intake validation: verify inputs, flag conflicts, log assumptions in the client record.
  • Milestone 2 – Plan crystallization: translate inputs into 2–4 measurable outcomes plus a 4‑week calendar with weekly actions.
  • Milestone 3 – Commitment & schedule: secure sign‑off on the plan and set dates for the next two touchpoints.

Key templates to maintain consistency:

  1. Intake questionnaire: 7 fields, optional notes, privacy acknowledgment.
  2. Goal sheet: 2–4 success criteria with numeric targets and a deadline.
  3. Action calendar: weekly tasks, owners, and completion indicators.

Data you should collect and monitor:

  • Completion rate of intake form (target: ≥92% within 48 hours).
  • Plan sign‑off rate (target: ≥95% after alignment).
  • Time to first action (target: ≤7 days).
  • Client satisfaction score (target: NPS 50+ after month one).
  • Plan adherence rate (target: ≥85% of weekly actions completed).
  • Goal achievement rate (target: ≥60% of defined outcomes met by week 8).

Sample scripts you can adapt:

  1. Kickoff intro (15–20 seconds): “Welcome aboard. I will guide you through a concise intake, a practical plan, and minimal weekly check‑ins.”
  2. Alignment check (60 seconds): “Here are your top 3 objectives, constraints, and the metrics we will track. Do these reflect your intentions?”
  3. Sign‑off invitation (30 seconds): “If you approve these targets, please confirm with your signature and we schedule the next milestone.”

Plan revision protocol:

  • Trigger: a goal shift or constraint change captured during weekly reviews.
  • Response: update the plan within 48 hours, reissue the one‑page document, and re‑schedule the next touchpoint.

Implement a transparent matchmaking framework with intake, criteria, and feedback loops

Launch a secure, centralized intake portal that collects baseline data and gates progress until fields are completed. Capture 14 data points: relationship objective, core values, deal-breakers, preferred age range, location radius, weekly availability, communication tempo, past relationship lessons, safety expectations, boundaries, budget, privacy preferences, consent to data handling, and an emergency contact. Enforce mandatory fields and provide inline hints to clarify intent.

De tres a cinco criterios medibles impulsan la alineación. Ejemplos de ponderaciones: alineación de objetivos 0.40, compatibilidad de estilo de vida 0.20, disponibilidad 0.15, estilo de comunicación 0.15, proximidad/logística 0.10. Aplique una escala de 0 a 5 con anclajes: 0 ninguno, 1 básico, 2 en desarrollo, 3 sólido, 4 fuerte, 5 excelente. Calcule una puntuación final automáticamente y muéstrela en la vista del cliente junto con las calificaciones por criterio.

Proporcione una rúbrica transparente haciendo visible el desglose de la puntuación a clientes y candidatos. Muestre la puntuación de cada criterio, la justificación de la calificación y cómo el número global impulsa los siguientes pasos, como pasar a una reunión preliminar o pausar el ciclo.

Ciclos de retroalimentación: después de cada contacto o interacción, recopile información dentro de las 72 horas utilizando un breve formulario de dos preguntas y comentarios opcionales. Programe un control de 1 semana y un seguimiento de 2 semanas para verificar la satisfacción y ajustar los parámetros en búsquedas posteriores. Utilice los resultados para recalibrar los pesos o agregar nuevas restricciones.

Gobernanza de datos: almacene los datos con cifrado en tránsito y en reposo, restrinja el acceso por rol y mantenga un registro de acciones. Implemente un plan de retención: los datos activos del cliente se conservan durante 2 años, luego se anonimizan o se eliminan; ejecute auditorías trimestrales para confirmar el cumplimiento.

Cadencia operativa: completar la admisión en 48 horas; ejecutar la puntuación en 24 horas; actualizar los grupos de candidatos semanalmente; presentar entre 3 y 5 coincidencias pulidas por ciclo de cliente.

Controles de calidad: celebrar sesiones trimestrales de calibración para comparar las puntuaciones de muestras anónimas, realinear las ponderaciones y documentar las decisiones. Realizar un seguimiento de métricas como la tasa de finalización de la admisión, la diferencia media entre los objetivos del cliente y las coincidencias finales, la progresión de la coincidencia hasta la primera cita y las señales de satisfacción del cliente.

Herramientas y plantillas: utilice un creador de formularios para la admisión, un libro mayor de puntuación y un panel de control ligero. Mantenga las plantillas versionadas, genere informes exportables y garantice la accesibilidad y las opciones de idioma.

Mitigación de riesgos: aplicar la puntuación ciega para la evaluación inicial para reducir el sesgo; exigir la aprobación del supervisor en las puntuaciones que superen un umbral; publicar una breve nota de ética para los clientes.

Ejemplos de campos concretos y preguntas: Describe tu primera cita ideal; Enumera tres aspectos no negociables; Califica tu ritmo de citas preferido en una escala del 1 al 5; Identifica ubicaciones dentro de un trayecto de 30 minutos que te convengan; Comparte un breve párrafo sobre una prioridad en una relación.

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