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A private conversation to understand your life, priorities and what a meaningful partnership would look like.
Private matchmaking · London & international
A remarkable life.A meaningful partnership.
You have built a life you love. Find someone to share it with — through thoughtful, personal introductions, not another dating app.
A confidential enquiry. No public profile. No pressure.
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A more considered way to meet
Your time is precious. So is the right connection.
For accomplished men and women who know what matters to them, value discretion and are ready for a serious relationship. A personal search built around your values, lifestyle and future — not a list of profiles.
Meet your matchmaker
Personal attention. Professional judgement.
I am Natalia Sergovantseva, a private matchmaker based in London. My background in psychology, economics and international HR shapes how I listen, understand people and consider compatibility. You work with a person who knows your story, not an algorithm.
The process
Less chance. More intention.
We search thoughtfully
A personal brief, a discreet search and careful conversations with potential matches before an introduction.
You meet with purpose
Considered introductions, honest feedback and guidance as the search develops.
Ways to work together
A search that fits your life.
Private matchmaking
A bespoke partner search for people ready to invest in a serious, long-term relationship.
Explore this serviceInternational search
A wider professional network when the right person may be beyond your immediate city or country.
Explore this serviceRelationship readiness
Clarify your goals, partner criteria and the patterns that shape your dating decisions.
Explore this serviceProfile & dating strategy
A considered review of how you present yourself and approach meaningful introductions.
Explore this serviceTrust, with a source
Professional practice. A public conversation.
Sergovantseva Matchmaking is listed in the ABIA register. Interviews and expert contributions offer a separate view of Natalia’s work as SoulMatcher co-founder. Read the originals and make your own judgement.
In conversation
A considered voice on connection
Two conversations with Natalia in her role as SoulMatcher co-founder — on looking beyond appearances and bringing psychology into dating.
Editorial interview
Akcent UKRussian
Наталья Сергованцева, соосновательница психологического сервиса знакомств SoulMatcher: „Мы хотим, чтобы люди выбирали не только по внешности“
An interview about SoulMatcher and the role of psychology in choosing a partner. Published by Kommersant UK, now Akcent UK; the link leads to the current canonical article.
Podcast interview · trade press
Global Dating InsightsEnglish
The GDI Podcast: SoulMatcher – Connecting Singles Using Deep Psychology
Natalia joins the dating-industry podcast as SoulMatcher co-founder to discuss a psychology-led approach to meeting a partner. Original audio: 16 minutes.
Before you begin
A few thoughtful questions.
Is my enquiry private?
Your enquiry is used to respond to you, not to publish a profile or add you to a marketing list. Please do not include sensitive personal information at this first stage.
What does private matchmaking cost?
The published ABIA listing describes bespoke memberships from £10,000 with a minimum six-month term. The scope, current fee and terms of your search are discussed individually before any commitment.
Do you work internationally?
Yes. The practice is based in London and searches may extend internationally where appropriate. Consultations are available in English and Russian.
Can you guarantee a relationship?
No. A professional search can create considered introductions and support better decisions; chemistry and the decision to build a relationship belong to the two people involved.
The journal
A thoughtful approach to relationships.
How Long Does Professional Matchmaking Take? Realistic Timelines Explained
One of the most common questions about matchmaking is how long it takes. The honest answer is: it depends — but here's what the realistic range looks like.
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How to Choose a Matchmaker: 8 Questions to Ask Before You Commit
Not all matchmakers are equal. Before you invest your time, money, and emotional energy, here are the questions that separate genuine professionals from the res…
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How Much Does Professional Matchmaking Cost? A Transparent Breakdown
Professional matchmaking is an investment — but what does it actually cost, and what are you paying for? Here's a clear breakdown of pricing and what to expect.
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Start with a conversation.
Tell me a little about what you are looking for. We will consider whether private matchmaking, an international search or a consultation is the right next step.
A confidential enquiry. No public profile. No pressure.